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Visit a Country Where You Don't Speak the Language

{A Written Practice}

Visit a country where you don't speak the language

Because until we step out of it, our culture is to us like water to a fish.

Until we step out of it, our culture is to us like water is to a fish. It’s only when we leave the familiar shape of our culture—be we people who like our culture or not—that we are able to get a felt sense of its shape. To feel how its invisible lines of force shape us, pressure us, constrain us, support us. Because, like trying on a different set of clothes, it’s not until we take off the ones that we are wearing and try on something new that we begin to feel the fit. The United States features itself a democracy, but it is an Empire. We picked up where the British left off. Did you notice that about our origin story? At a tactical level, this program has been enacted through culture as much as force, by brand USA: the Eagle, Coca-Cola, the Marlboro man. Our gospel is late-stage capitalism: our interest is economic domination. The US centers itself and its wants. Every map I was shown as a child, and I didn’t realize this fully until I was in my early forties and our mentor Lee Mun Wah pointed it out, places the United States in the exact center of the map. In order to do this, on our maps, we cut a continent in half. That tells you something about us, we United Statesians, as a culture.

To step outside of your own culture is to learn how you have been conditioned by something that was, until this moment, invisible to you. There are currents of culture that run through all of us that we cannot feel until we are no longer within our cultural field. And these cultural currents are not monolithic. A family is a culture. A neighborhood is a culture. And we are accultured to belong at each of these levels. Or we don't: we rebel, we break out, we disrupt, we leave. If you don’t have the good fortune to visit another country, just go across town. Visit someplace where the dominant culture is not your own. Want to understand your bias? Go somewhere where your bias isn’t centered. Centering of your location, be it your country, your gender, or your race, makes it very hard for you understand your impacts. When our perspective is privileged, or centered, we don’t know so well who we are. Awareness arises when we step outside of that centering. When we first realize that we are different. This is the crime scene at the origin of consciousness. In Japanese culture there exists a conceptualization of a cultural soma. A cultural body. We talk in somatic circles about the field of the body: the soma. A culture, we would propose to you, likewise has a body. This is not a metaphor: it is not something abstract. A culture exerts shaping forces on bodies: it coerces alignment through what it values, centers, acknowledges. It punishes deviation. To understand the body of the culture you live in, step outside of it.

Related Practices:

Related to both somatic practices of embodiment and boundary setting, as well as to practices of relating across difference. See How Whiteness Operates to explore this through the lens of race in the United States. See the film Healthy Relationships, An Unfinished Conversation about Race, and The Faces We Fear.

Who taught us this?

I think this was something I realized (Gabriel) when I first travelled to France in highschool. I found myself different in relationship to the shaping forces of this new place, where I didn't fully speak the language. Later, traveling in Italy, living in Beirut, Lebanon, living in Brasil. We come to know who we are by stepping out of the familiar. It is the thrill of travel, if we have the humility to allow ourselves to harmonize, to soften the grip on our assumptions. It doesn't feel different than stepping into other cultural spaces. I felt this attending my first teepee ceremony in my twenties. My first anti-racism class that de-centered whiteness. These spaces provide incredible opportunities for us to grow, because they put us into contact with parts of ourselves that we didn't know existed. What a blessing to have a mirror held to a part of yourself you didn't see.

Who taught us this?

I think this was something I realized (Gabriel) when I first travelled to France in highschool. I found myself different in relationship to the shaping forces of this new place, where I didn't fully speak the language. Later, traveling in Italy, living in Beirut, Lebanon, living in Brasil. We come to know who we are by stepping out of the familiar. It is the thrill of travel, if we have the humility to allow ourselves to harmonize, to soften the grip on our assumptions. It doesn't feel different than stepping into other cultural spaces. I felt this attending my first teepee ceremony in my twenties. My first anti-racism class that de-centered whiteness. These spaces provide incredible opportunities for us to grow, because they put us into contact with parts of ourselves that we didn't know existed. What a blessing to have a mirror held to a part of yourself you didn't see.

Photography: Stein Egil Liland | Licensed from Pexels.com, used with permission.

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